Liza Soberano’s remarks on ‘My Ex and Whys’ draw praise, backlash

Days after Liza Soberano criticized the misogynistic undertones of her 2017 film with former onscreen partner Enrique Gil, “My Ex and Whys,” netizens remain divided over whether the actress raised a valid point or was simply being ungrateful.

“I like this movie too but at the same time, I don’t like the misogynistic take on it very much,” Liza said.

She explained that her character, Cali, gets cheated on, becomes a popular blogger by writing about their relationship, and then faces public backlash for being a “man-hater.” Eventually, she tries to reconcile with her ex to prove to everyone that they are okay.

Liza also revealed that she still loves Enrique as a person, although they no longer communicate following their breakup.

Film’s gender dynamics

Several netizens agreed with her assessment, arguing that the film, directed by Cathy Garcia-Sampana, placed much of the emotional burden on the woman who had been cheated on.

“Liza did not lie, tho. Looking back, ‘My Ex and Whys’ really had some pretty misogynistic undertones,” one netizen wrote.

Another pointed out that the director’s films often portray women forgiving unfaithful men or sacrificing their careers for their relationships.

Others also questioned the industry’s loveteam culture, with one bringing up the age gap between Liza and Enrique, who were 16 and 22, respectively, when their pairing gained prominence.

Criticism or ingratitude?

However, some defended the film and criticized Liza for repeatedly speaking negatively about Philippine showbiz.

“Ang akin lang, when is she going to stop dragging the Filipino entertainment industry?” one netizen asked.

Another accused her of being ungrateful, while a different commenter argued that fictional characters are meant to be complex and should not always be judged according to present-day values.

One also questioned why Liza continues discussing the local industry despite wanting to move forward with her career abroad.

“Bunganga mo, ungrateful. Bakit hindi ka na lang mag-focus sa Hollywood and start anew?”

The debate highlights the divide between viewers who believe Liza is right to revisit the film’s dated gender dynamics and those who think her repeated criticisms of Philippine showbiz have gone too far.